Virginity pledges for men can lead to sexual confusion, even after the wedding day
The newlyweds also revealed that they continue to think of sex in terms of control, and how the so-called beastly elements of sex — temptations by pornography and extramarital affairs — do not disappear with the transition to married life.
“Before you get married the biggest thing you struggle with, usually, is premarital sex,” one of the men told Diefendorf. “But once you are married, you can’t be tempted by that anymore, so you get attacked by completely different things. Essentially Satan has to find a new angle to attack on.”
They wished for more guidance from the church, and someone in the group said he’d cheer if his pastor decided to talk more about sex.
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