How “love your neighbor” is the Bible’s sexual ethic
I quibble with some of the points he makes, but overall, I really like this post.
…the question is isn’t, When is it OK to have sex? The question is, How do I love my neighbor? Any sexual behavior which doesn’t pass the “love your neighbor” test is off limits.
Sounds weak, right? I mean, did we just open a Pandora’s box of promiscuity, all in the name of “love”?
Well, no. Love is a lot more demanding than that. Love by its very nature refuses to dishonor another person. Love is not self-seeking. Love protects. Love does not pursue its own satisfaction at someone else’s expense. Love teaches us to value others above ourselves.
Which leaves absolutely no room for coercive or predatory sex of any kind: rape, harassment, or even just pressuring someone to jump into the sack before they’re ready. All off limits.